Just Being A Mommy

Just Being A Mommy

Thursday, November 21, 2013

Prematurity Awareness Day 11/17

In honor of Prematurity Awareness Day, I thought I would post about the journey I had with the boys. I typed this up for one of my friends, who is using it for a presentation on TTTS, Twin to Twin Transfusion Syndrome. Thought I should share, since a lot of you don't know the whole story!


I had my first ultrasound at 8 weeks, where they told me that I was having twins, and referred me to a high-risk doctor here in BG. The next week, I went for an ultrasound with the high-risk dr., where they told me that my twins were identical twins. While, it is a great blessing, it also came with great risk, including TTTS. Dr. Lombarti sat my husband and me down and explained to us what TTTS was, and what could happen if it were to happen to my babies. After further ultrasounds, they found that my BOYS had their own amniotic sac, but of course in the same placenta, so I was not AS high risk as I could have been, although TTTS was still a great possibility. From 8 weeks on to week 30 weeks, I had an ultrasound every 2 weeks and after that every week to check the growth and fluid levels. I was already scheduled to have a c-section on May 2nd and would have been a little over 37 weeks, which is a week past full term for multiples. I went in for a untrasound with Dr. Lombarti on April 26th, where they discovered that Brady (Baby B) had gained nearly a pound in a week, and Conner (Baby A) had remained the same.  I knew as soon as the US started that something was wrong, because she measured Brady several times over and over, and I noticed that he was measuring nearly a week ahead of Conner. The ultrasound tech left me to go call Dr. Lombarti, who then called my OBGYN, Dr. Stice, who told me to not eat or drink anything for the rest of the day, because he had to deliver the babies TODAY!  I, of course freaked out!!! I called my mom, who started crying and then had her call everyone else, because I couldn’t talk. So my husband and I went to the mall and walked for 2 hours before we had to be back in Labor and Delivery.
At 3:00, I checked in and by 5:00, the anesthesiologist had been in to tell me how everything was going to happen, my OBGYN came by to check on me and let me know what was going on, and of course ALL of my family was there. At 6:00 they took me to the OR and gave me my epideral, and at 6:35, I heard the most amazing sound ever!!! Conner (Baby A) had entered the world. They immediately gave him to my husband as they took out Brady (Baby B) at 6:36. I noticed that Brady did not cry, and later found out that he was not breathing when he came out. They rushed Brady to NICU and Phillip and Conner left, as I went to recovery.
They were diagnosed with TTTS, and I was told the Conner was the donor and Brady was the receiver. Conner was born 4 lbs. 8.5 oz. and 17 ¾ inches long and Brady was 5 lbs. 10.3 oz. and 18 inches long. Although Brady was bigger, he had to spend 4 days in NICU, while Conner got to stay in the regular nursery. They told me this was due to the fact that while in the womb, Conner had to fight to survive, because Brady was taking all the nutrients, therefore he was stronger, and Brady was “fat and lazy”, because he did not have to fight as hard to survive. He only had to spend 1 day on a C-Pap, the rest of the time was observation and teaching him to swallow. My boys were born at 35 weeks gestation, and luckily only had to stay in the hospital one day past the typical time for c-sections. I am extremely lucky that they did not develop TTTS until later on in the pregnancy, and I am so thankful for the wonderful people at the high-risk facility and NICU for taking such great care of my babies. According to their 4-month checkup, they weigh 14 lbs. 15 oz. and 15 lbs. 14 oz. They are now nearly 7 months old, and growing and learning new things every single day!
Me and My boys on leaving day


My sweet boys first time meeting each other... Brady on the left, Conner on the right

My first time seeing my Conner. I was in CCU with blood pressure problems.

My sweet Brady after he finally got rid of that mean ole C-Pap

Look at the difference 6 months makes!

First time together

My silly boys happy and healthy!

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Birthdays, Gymnastics, and Twisters

Boy oh boy, did we ever have a busy weekend.

First of all... Phill worked 56 hours this week... so it was pretty much me and the boys all week. He was suppose to be off work on Saturday, but had to go in at 6:00 in the morning. As soon as he got home, I left to go watch my little cousin's first gymnastics competition of the year. She's only 10 years old, but man is she good! She can already do her back handspring... which I find pretty darn impressive. I was there until 5pm and then came home to spend a few hours with my boys until bedtime.

Sunday was a hot mess... We got up and got ready for church... then was LATE for church, so we went on to Connie and Kevin's for Aunt Susan birthday. **I think we're going to start going to early service, cause regular service is right at the boys' nap time, so it is near impossible to get everybody ready for church and be there in time.** Anyway, once we were there, we tried to lay the boys down for a nap, which was a huge fail... since they slept the whole way there... so we had to deal with very cranky babies for the rest of the day. We did however, manage to get down some yummy chili and chocolate cake! ;) I got to spend some time with my sweet niece and nephew, which is always a good thing! We went and rented Monster University for Jayden and Madison to watch, which I think the adults watched more of than the kids! lol  

On our way home, we noticed that it was looking rough out, and about that time, I got a text message that we were under a severe t-storm warning, so we rushed to get home and as soon as we pulled into our drive way, the cowbells started going off.... OH NO!!! So, we didn't waste a second, we drove over to the apartment next to ours and got in the basement. Yup, this was the boys' first run-in with a twister! Although we never got any severe damage or anything, it was still scary. Tornadoes were bad before, but now they're even worse since I have the boys to worry about. It was all over by about 5:30 and we went home and finished off our Sunday Funday with some Mickey Mouse Clubhouse and baths! 





On a lighter note, I finally can say I have dissected something!!! Monday, in A&P, we got to dissect sheep brains. I know to some it's totally gross, but omg i loved it!!! Looking forward to next week, we'll be dissecting eye balls!!!




UPDATE on my handsome little fellers: Conner now has his first tooth!!! :)))) yayyyy!!!  I love seeing them grow and change everyday... but it's all happening too fast!

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

6 months! WHATTT?!

As of October 26th, Conner and Brady are 6 months old! WHAT!? It seems like the last year has been a blur, from finding out I was pregnant, to finding out I was having twins, then identical twins, to having the twins... and now we're halfway through the first year of their life. My whole world has been changed for the better. I don't really remember what life was before they were here. I find myself missing them when they're napping, and when they spend the night with Grandma, I just don't know what to do with myself. I feel like being a mommy is what I was made for. I love every single minute being with my boys.

Momma's little rocker dudes ready for church




I have already started working on their first birthday party. Right now, their favorite thing to watch on TV is Mickey Mouse Clubhouse so I think their first birthday will be Mickey Mouse themed. I have been looking a lot on Pinterest and have a lot of awesome ideas. I know they won't remember it, but you only turn 1 once!!! :)

Milestones


  • Conner and Brady can both roll both ways
  • Brady has 1 tooth, and working on the second. Both on the bottom.
  • Brady is working on crawling, Conner is happier standing up with assistance of Mommy and Daddy
  • Both love to play with their feet
  • Their favorite foods are bananas and squash
  • They both still have beautiful blue eyes
  • They love watching Mickey Mouse
  • Both are Momma's boys *don't tell Daddy...
  • First words for both were Da-Da. We're working on Mama
  • They look pretty awesome in a mohawk ;) 

They love playing on Nana and Papaw's trampoline

Best Friends Forever
 I'm going to start working really hard to keep up with my blogging. As fast as this first 6 months has gone by, I don't want any more to pass without documenting every little thing! ;) Keep up with our growth!